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In my best dress, fearless.
My mom and I have shared a vintage floral dress for years, passing it back and forth, but I have never been confident enough to wear it...

Lauren
May 19, 20242 min read
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The story of Wes (part 1 of 3)
Mom and I were on our way to Olive Garden on December 22 (this would be the last time I saw her), and her phone rang. She checked it, and...

Lauren
May 15, 20242 min read
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My last conversation with my mom.
In recent months, my mom and I have been communicating much less. This was a good thing, and I will explain why in a later blog. On...

Lauren
May 14, 20242 min read
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My first “normal” day after my mom died.
I had booked a massage, which felt utterly ridiculous. I get a massage once a month as part of my self-care plan, but I had just had a...

Lauren
May 11, 20243 min read
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How much more proof do I need to provide?
Last week, I crossed the street to check the mail. Bills. Coupons. Spam. Letter from the Archdiocese of Louisville. My heart sank. “Will...

Lauren
Apr 24, 20242 min read
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Brad's hat.
My and Brad’s first argument was about one of my friends. We’ll call her Anne. Anne was upset about something her husband’s mother had...

Lauren
Apr 15, 20242 min read
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Discussing the word "home" in therapy. With Brad!
Last July, I formally moved in with Brad. I would be lying if I said it was an easy adjustment for either of us. I am going to rewind to...

Lauren
Mar 28, 20244 min read
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"Nothing about this keeps me up at night." A lesson from our Chief Operating Officer.
This morning, I was surprised to see a meeting invitation from Mark Hohmann, our chief financial officer, on my calendar. I called out to...

Lauren
Mar 4, 20242 min read
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Cheetos: a mini story about love.
I read this the other day, and it really resonated with me: People don't always say I love you. Sometimes it sounds like: Be safe. Did...

Lauren
Feb 29, 20241 min read
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Why did I cry ON my first date with Brad?
A little background: Brad loathes social media, which is ironic, considering social media is a large part of my profession. Anyway, I...

Lauren
Feb 27, 20243 min read
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Why is my blog called "Fix me in 45?"
Since I created my blog, I have had several people reach out to me to thank me for my “honesty.” But in hindsight, I haven’t been...

Lauren
Feb 22, 20243 min read
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Please stop telling me to adopt my foster animals.
As a foster parent, I’d like to offer a perspective on why we should refrain from telling foster families to adopt their foster animals....

Lauren
Feb 20, 20242 min read
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Meta feelings: "I am frustrated that I am frustrated, which is making me more frustrated."
An hour after I published my last blog about how well I was managing my thoughts and feelings in the moments leading up to having guests...

Lauren
Jan 28, 20244 min read
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Our house smells like dog.
My ship reparation requires daily maintenance. For me, that looks like consciously reframing a lot of my thoughts. For example, I...

Lauren
Jan 27, 20242 min read
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A defective ship.
For years, and perhaps my entire life, I have been a ship – a defective ship sailing across a large body of water. I selected the word...

Lauren
Jan 25, 20243 min read
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To the Catholic Church,
Respectfully, I believe this process is ludicrous. I have no agenda to “contest” Tyler’s request for an annulment outside of my own...

Lauren
Nov 27, 20231 min read
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Dependency is NOT a bad word.
During my divorce, I began dating way too soon. If you asked my best friend, my therapist, my parents, and my colleagues if I should have...

Lauren
Nov 17, 20234 min read
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My gargantuan victory.
Last week, I talked about “mini victories,” but today, I’d like to talk about a big victory. The gargantuan of victories. I signed up for...

Lauren
Nov 15, 20235 min read
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The one where random women restored my faith in humanity.
During my divorce, many women (and people in general, to be fair) failed me. Long story short, Tyler “collected” most of the friends. I...

Lauren
Nov 10, 20233 min read
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Celebrating mini victories.
If you are familiar with my blog, you know that “grace” is a reoccurring theme of mine. But today, I realized that grace doesn’t have to...

Lauren
Nov 8, 20232 min read
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