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As a six-year-old, I created a "rainy day" fund.
I would like to preface this blog by stating that my brothers and I never went without – we were well fed, well clothed, and well taken...

Lauren
Feb 2, 20233 min read
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I am whole person.
“I am a whole person.” My last annual review at work did not go well. I was used to nothing but STELLAR, GLOWING reviews, and I crumbled....

Lauren
Jan 19, 20232 min read
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I gave up the stadium to have a corner.
I don’t know how God or the laws of the universe or karma works, but what I DO know is … 2023 HAS to be kind to me. It HAS to be. If not...

Lauren
Jan 1, 20232 min read
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My rules of dating—the most important, do not associate with men who don't allow pets on furniture.
I read/hear about the horrors of dating in your 30s. The first person (T) I dated post-divorce was a DREAM. No games. No bullshit. No...

Lauren
Dec 29, 20222 min read
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Just keep hitting singles.
When I was at my all-time low, my therapist implemented “time chunking” – which, quite literally saved me. I was incapable of...

Lauren
Dec 23, 20222 min read
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My college volleyball coach called me 'selfish.' And perhaps I was.
My transition from high school volleyball to college volleyball was not an easy one. I went from being a big fish in a small pond to the...

Lauren
Dec 16, 20224 min read
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My boyfriend thought I was selling his dog on the black market.
I conceptualized this gift months ago – and worked closely with my dear designer friend, as I still lovingly refer to as “Tattoo Chad”...

Lauren
Dec 12, 20223 min read
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You call him 'Coach Stahl,' but I just call him 'Dad.'
“Snap at your hip.” “Drive the outside pitch to right field.” “CHOP the ball into the ground.” “Be PATIENT on the change up.” I would say...

Lauren
Dec 9, 20223 min read
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This holiday season, DO protect your peace. DO NOT pluralize last names with an apostrophre.
Honestly, I have been struggling to find an “angle” for this blog, because I want to talk to November 2021 Lauren, and to anyone else who...

Lauren
Nov 27, 20223 min read
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Lauren (Stahl Me). The 2022 version of a mix tape.
When I started dating after my divorce, my best guy friend (and maybe favorite human on the planet) – who I trust with my entire being –...

Lauren
Nov 26, 20223 min read
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Dear Matt,
“You know how much I hate that everybody just expects me to bounce back.” Dear Matt, It’s my time to heal now. And it took time—serious...

Lauren
Nov 16, 20221 min read
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One year ago, my whole world crumbled. IT HAS BEEN A BLAST!
One year ago today (November 15, I am publishing a day early), my whole life was swept from under me, and quite frankly, I lost my entire...

Lauren
Nov 14, 20223 min read
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31-year-old Lauren hates 21-year-old Lauren. And that's okay.
Some of this is recycled content of my own, but I thought today was a fitting day to share: In eighth grade, I remember writing a...

Lauren
Nov 8, 20223 min read
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Kids still ride their bikes.
Kids still ride their bikes. I moved into a house I never would have moved into, due to ‘life circumstances.’ One day, I will be brave...

Lauren
Oct 30, 20222 min read
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Grace.
Grace. It is something I have worked on in therapy for months and months and months, yet I am not grasping it. Grace with myself, that...

Lauren
Oct 12, 20221 min read
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100 things I love about myself.
My therapist recently gave me a homework assignment. I was instructed to list 100 things I love about myself. “100?!” I exclaimed. “I...

Lauren
Oct 3, 20225 min read
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Today, I unconsciously demonstrated gender, age and race biases.
I write this with as much self-awareness and humility as possible. Today, I unconsciously demonstrated gender, age and race biases. My...

Lauren
Sep 29, 20222 min read
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Do I need validation, advice, a pity party, or a good time? Why not all.
Relapse: A deterioration in someone's state of health after a temporary improvement. It felt too click-baity to use the term "relapse"...

Lauren
Sep 27, 20224 min read
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Slashing social circles.
I have been wanting to write this blog post for a while, but I didn't really know *how.* The right words, the right sentiment, just were...

Lauren
Sep 21, 20222 min read
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Are you KIDNEY me? A lifesaving, double organ transplant.
Four years ago today, Brad received a lifesaving double organ transplant. Brad would (obviously) not enter my life until years later, but...

Lauren
Sep 15, 20222 min read
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